You may think you know everything there is to know about women,
but they’re willing to bet the following facts about their self-pleasuring ways
will surprise you.
Whether you think mast**bation is as natural as breathing,
or you think it is the root of all evil, the facts remain the same, 80percent
of people you know mast**bates even you.
You may not do it regularly, but almost everyone has
mast**bated, or does mast**bate from time to time. It is natural, and it's not
dirty, unless you want it to be.
So, if mast**bation is so great, and everyone does it, why
are women so reluctant to admit they do it?
Most men have no problem admitting they choke the chicken.
In fact, many are proud of their self-pleasuring antics.
This must be just another difference that separates the
sexes, but hopefully by the end of this feature, the divide will be a tad bit
smaller.
The elusive art of female mast**bation
Here are a few facts about women and mast**bation you
probably didn't know.
1.
All women do the deed - Most won't
admit to pleasuring themselves, but make no mistake: all women do it, or have
done it. At least all women who took part in a study conducted by Arizona
State University .
It was a small study—only 20 women of varying age, ethnicity,
and sexual orientation, but the results are definitely interesting.
All 20 women admitted to having rubbed the nub at least once
in their lives, and some even said they do it at least once a day. While this
study was probably a little biased, since the women polled voluntarily participated
in a study on sex**lity read: they were more free-spirited, another interesting
study—the Gossard Big M Survey (2008)—found that 9 out of 10 women romance thy
own, and many do it as much as three times a week.
2.
Self-love is about more than just
sex - Getting off is great, but for many of us, it is more than just the primal
need for release.
Sometimes, we have other reasons for
mast**bating. For instance, we may be having trouble sleeping. Tickling our
fancy to orgasm is one of the best natural sleep aids in the world. It's also a
great stress reliever, and many of us pet the kitty to de-stress and unwind.
3.
We prefer se**x toys to our fingers
when going solo- Most women who masturbate, about 90 percent use se**x toys
rather than fingers to bring themselves to orgasm. Why? Well, you know us
women. The majority of us aren't exactly quick on the draw, and vibrators just
make it happen faster.
4.
Sometimes it just seems like work
- Even though most of us look at self-pleasuring as a positive thing, there are
times mast**bating just seems like work. Unlike men, reaching orgasm can be
difficult for women. Sometimes, it just doesn't happen, no matter how hard you
try. Tiptoeing through the two-lips at times like this can be frustrating.
Another frustrating aspect of mast**bation is having to take care of yourself
when you didn't get to finish with your partner.
5.
It's no big deal, really - For many of us, self-pleasure is as
commonplace and necessary as brushing our teeth. It's a no-frills, unromantic
way to relieve tension or even to set the stage for a great day. Many women
start each day off right with a little two-fingered tango in the shower before
heading off to work. Mast**bating, for some women, is just another aspect of a
normal day, despite the emphasis society and the male gender places on it.
6.
We really have no clue how other
women do it - Do other women penetrate
while mast**bating? Is it all about clitoral stimulation? We really don't know
what other women do, and honestly, we really don't care. Research suggests that
only about 24 percent of women reach orgasm through penetration, so the
majority of us usually don't use penetration to get ourselves off. This isn't
to say we forgot it altogether; really, we just do what feels good.
7.
We still think it's a man thing -
Despite the overwhelming number of women who mast**bate, we still think the act
is a "man thing." We still claim that men do it more or at least more
regularly than we do. For those of us who do admit to touching ourselves, it's
usually because we're doing it for our partners either in front of them or
during sex. You'd be hard-pressed to get us to admit we do it alone and solely
for ourselves.
8.
Mast**bation just makes us happy -
Solo se**x carries a ton of benefits. It helps us get in tune with our bodies so
we're more relaxed and happier. It allows us to find out what feels good, so we
can share those discoveries with our partners. There's even evidence that
self-love makes se**x with someone else better by keeping those pelvic-floor
muscles in shape. All of these things are cause for celebration, for sure.
9.
Older women mast**bate too - In the 2010 National Survey of Sexual Health
and Behavior published by the Kinsey Institute, nearly a third of the women
polled in the 60 to 69 age group admitted recent masturbation.
10.
Sorry guys 4 out of 10 women
prefer orgasm from mast**bation over actual se**x.
11.
The vagina is self-cleaning.
12.
The average female orgasm lasts
about 10 seconds. The longest on record lasted 43 seconds and included 25
contractions.
13.
The largest clitoris on record
measured 4 ½ inches long and 1 ½ inches wide.
14.
When nothing else is available,
many women prefer cucumbers and candlesticks for penetration during solo se**x
play.
15.
Saliva can actually disrupt the
delicate balance in the vagina, which can lead to yeast infections.
16.
Women with higher levels of
testosterone in their bodies are more likely to mast**bate.
17.
Humans aren't the only ones who
know the pleasures of self-love. Apes, horses and birds also do it.
18.
The female orgasm can be vaginal,
clitoral or a combination of both.
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